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Worried that my son might be a gambling addict!

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#1 ·
Hi,

I'm worried about my son and I need advice because I don't know what to do. I have two sons, 16 and 14, and my older one recently started coming home wearing new clothes, shoes, and other trinkets. Their dad and I divorced so at first I thought nothing of it and figured their dad must have been giving him cash.

But, I spoke to my ex about it this morning and told him that I disagreed with him giving our older one so much money. To my surprise, he told me he hadn't given our older son any money whatsoever in weeks. As soon as we finished the call, I immediately went up to my son's room and started going through his stuff. I almost passed out when I found a box full of cash under his bed. There was close to $3,000 in it!!

I immediately texted him to come home and went through his laptop. His browser history was full of links to online casinos, and the most recently accessed link from an hour or so ago was Four Of The Very Best No Deposit Bonuses For Slot Players | Inside Pulse.

I'm still waiting for him to come home, but I'm freaking out. He's underage and shouldn't have access to gambling anywhere, online or offline. But even if he did, where did the money come from? He's always been great at algebra and stuff in school, but I doubt he's a card genius!

My mind is in a dark place right now and I absolutely plan on having a long talk with him when he gets home. Until that happens, does anyone have any advice? I've never been in this situation before - what do I say, how should I behave? Should I be hard on him or understanding? I'm at a total loss, so please help!!
 
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#2 ·
If I were you, I would talk to my son openly and try to find out what's going on because I understand that it's stressing you, especially when the amount it's bigger than you can imagine for a 16-year-old boy. For example, I was in the same situation with my mom, and we had an open conversation. I explained where I got this money from. At first, she was scared, but after seeing that I always won and knew the limit, she started to support me. Now I work with sports betting, and it's bringing me that amount of money, which I can support myself and my family.
 
#3 ·
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#7 · (Edited)
I hope this message finds you well. I came across your post and wanted to offer my support and advice. Try to understand where he's coming from and what might be driving him to gamble. Remind him about the risks and consequences of gambling at a young age. Regarding the money, it's unclear where it came from, but it's important to address that as well. It's possible that he's taken it from somewhere or someone else, and that's not okay. He'd better play at this online casino ei rekisteröitymistä. I hope that by now, you have received the help and support you needed. If not, please know that there are still people here willing to support and help you. Take care.
 
#9 · (Edited)
It's essential to approach the situation with love and understanding, firm, and set boundaries. One thing you might want to consider is seeking professional help. As for where the money came from, your son may have been taking money from you or other family members without you realizing it. It's also possible that he's been winning money from online casinos or other gambling sites. I often play online casino w88 for fun, and your son might have played too. Remember, addiction is a disease, and it's not something your son can "snap out of." It will take time, patience, and support from his family and loved ones to overcome this.
 
#10 ·
First of all, take a deep breath and try not to panic. When your son comes home, try to have an open and honest conversation with him about what you found. Don't be accusatory or judgmental, but instead, express your feelings and ask him about the online gambling links. Listen to his side of the story and try to understand where he's coming from. It might be helpful to seek the assistance of a professional counselor or therapist who specializes in gambling addiction, as they can provide you and your son with the tools and support you need to address this issue. Above all, it's important to let your son know that you love and support him, and that you're here to help him through this difficult time.
 
#11 · (Edited)
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#13 · (Edited)
I totally get your concerns about getting addicted to gambling. It's important to set limits and stick to them. Decide on a budget you're cool with and only gamble within that limit. Also, don't let it take over all your time and make sure to take breaks. It's all about finding a balance, my friend! If you're into sports betting, you might want to check out betcanada365.ca. They have a sportsbook review section where you can find helpful info and tips. Just remember to always bet responsibly and have fun.
 
#14 ·
If you're concerned about your son potentially being a gambling addict, it's essential to approach the situation with understanding and support. Gambling addiction can have serious consequences on an individual's life. To address your worries, consider having an open and honest conversation with your son about his gambling habits and any concerns you may have. Additionally, researching platforms like ggbet review could help you better understand potential risks associated with online gambling. Seeking professional advice and support from addiction counselors or support groups may also be beneficial in helping your son if he is indeed struggling with gambling addiction. Remember, empathy and communication are crucial in handling sensitive issues like this.
 
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